As I drove into work this morning, the first song I heard on the radio was “Live Like You Were Dying” by Tim McGraw. The basic story line is advice given by a man diagnosed with cancer to his friend. It starts as kind of sad song until the true meaning of his advice sinks in. And, that’s how it hit me this morning. My initial thoughts, when I heard the opening chords, went to loved ones and friends who are battling cancer. Then it dawned on me that this was my first day back to work in 2019 and the advice in the song was actually a mantra that would serve me well in 2019 and beyond.

Live life to the fullest every day. Don’t be afraid to take risks. Be the best person you can be. Cherish the ones you love. Don’t put off your dreams just because it’s hard or others wouldn’t understand. Be kind. Be humble. Be true to yourself, the best parts of yourself. Forgive those who may or may not deserve it, regardless. Have faith in your beliefs.

Now, you won’t find me trying to ride a bull named Fu Manchu or sky dive like the guy in the song. Neither of these interest me. But, I do have dreams and a bucket list. And starting today, right now, I will be doing my best to aspire to the ideals listed above. None of us know what tomorrow will bring, or for that matter, what will happen in the next few seconds. I’ve witnessed life changing moments for enough people, and experienced them as well, to know that tomorrow is a gift we may never get to see.

One of my favorite quotes is, “Life is full of choices.” It’s your choice to make. Take responsibility for it and make the best one you can, every time.

Have a happy, healthy, and prosperous 2019.